Amateur Couple FemDom Lessons - Chastity CBT Threesome

I consider this scene to be very advanced couple's therapy with an experienced femdom at the helm. This submissive has the tendency to giggle when under extreme duress... a trait that some women find troubling or even offensive. Sometimes where the giggles start and end can tell you a LOT about someone's pain thresholds. I understand the delicate dance of fear, laughter, pain and endorphins. I think less experienced femdoms are often intimidated or insulted by giggles, but I take it in stride and push him beyond his existing pain thresholds. That is, after all, why this real life couple in a "female led relationship" (FLR) came to me in the first place - to offer them both advanced training in order to help her truly take control of the relationship. She is ready to take control, in every sense of the word. Chastity has helped bring her husband in line using a custom fitted device but CBT also helps bring out the giggling side of his masochistic nature. Our goal is to keep him too distracted and overwhelmed to talk. This "smart assed masochist" (SAM) goes out of his way to goad his mistress into anger in the hopes that it will lead to more severe punishments. He must learn that punishments and attention are rewards that are entirely at HER discretion. Like a dog pulling at the leash, he must be reminded who is the dominant in their relationship. I introduce them to caning when CBT clothespins seem to only make his motor mouth worse. It is time to make it clear to this little submissive that not all punishments are for pleasure, some are designed to be instructive! After he endures a great deal of pain, we sooth him with vibrating tease and denial pleasure without removing the chastity device, then add painful nipple torture using beautiful metal clover-style clamps. While asking for what you need is respectable, manipulating a D/s relationship leads to unsatisfying results for everyone... domme and sub alike. Manipulation reduces a dominant's feeling of power AND a submissive's feeling of being under control.